Copyright (c) 2009 C Tyler
One of the hardest things for a man to decipher is when is the right time to approach a woman? When you approach a woman, and your timing is off, you can pretty much guarantee that you are NOT going to get the reaction from her that you are looking for. Look, fellas, while you may have the best of intentions, a woman will SHOOT you down if the timing is off. One thing a lot of men tend to forget is that you are dealing with a person who, just like YOU, will have their good days and bad days.
When you approach a woman and it just happens to be one of those days when things are NOT going her way, there is a good chance that you will make the wrong first impression. Do this, and you will probably face rejection from a woman. However, you CAN also come off as that little bit of sunshine in her life, if you approach a woman the RIGHT way.
Here are some clues as to when YOU should approach a woman:
1. She seems to be having a good time. If you are out in a club or bar setting and you see that she is having a good time, enjoying the energy and the night life, then this is definitely a good sign that you should make your move. If on the other hand, you see that she is not having a good time, then it’s probably best to stay away unless your game is rock solid.
2. You are having one of those days where it seems like everything is going YOUR way. We’ve all had those days when it seems like we are floating on the clouds and life is just beautiful for us. These are those perfect days to approach a woman, as you will give off that vibe of being someone who is fun and enjoying life. And this is an attractive quality, not matter who you are or where you are. Ride out your good wave and approach a woman when you FEEL this GOOD.
3. If you see a woman and she’s been checking you out, you BETTER go ahead and make your approach. While let a perfect opportunity get away? When you get the green light from a woman, by all means, go ahead and take it. As they say, don’t look a gift horse in the mouth. Sometimes, it’s puzzling how men can get all the RIGHT signs from a woman and STILL fail to make a move. Do NOT let this happen to YOU.