Hopefully you realize this because today it seems like there is a drug for every thing.
If you are considering giving (or suggesting) your female partner a libido enhancing drug, then you need to take a deep breath right now, because I’m going to give you the “real truth”.
And that is a woman’s libido has 30,000 times more to do with the guy’s sexual value, than her natural ability to get turned on…
In simple terms, if she isn’t in the mood to have sex with you, giving her libido enhancing drugs/herbs will not solve this problem.
This is a “secret” that no one is telling you.
In fact, the scary truth is the billion dollar drug industry does not want you to figure this FACT out…
And it gets worse…
Because the reality…
The brain-dead simple fact…
If libido enhancing drugs actually solved the problem, then a monkey (who hasn’t bathed in 3 months) could give your female partner a libido enhancing drug and PRESTO she would get “turned on” and have sex with the monkey.
The reality is it doesn’t matter how turned on she gets, she will not have sex with a monkey (because the monkey has no sexual value to her).
So simple logic reveals that this applies to a husband (or boyfriend) who has no sexual value!
If she loves him that doesn’t mean that he will “magically” have sexual value.
Could you imagine going to a car dealer to look for a new car. You walk around on the car lot – looking around for your dream car…
You’re just browsing around, when all of sudden this car salesman introduces himself to you:
Kevin CarSalesman: Hi sir, do you see anything you like?
You: I see a few cars I like.
Kevin CarSalesman: So do you know what kind of car you like?
You: Of course!
Kevin CarSalesman: Do you like this one right here? (pointing to an old beat-up station wagon)
You: Not really. It just doesn’t do it for me.
Kevin CarSalesman: Why don’t you like it?
You: To be honest, I can’t really put it into words. I can tell you that I don’t want it.
Kevin CarSalesman: Why? It’s a great car. And I want you to buy it. (speaking in a sincere tone. And he actually appears to be a nice guy.)
You: No I’m sorry sir…
Kevin CarSalesman: Could you please buy it. Come on. Pleeeeeease…
You: I don’t want to…
Kevin CarSalesman: Well maybe something is wrong with you, because I have never had any trouble selling this car to people in the past… How about you take this herbal pill which should “make you normal” so that you can give me your money and buy this car…
Do you see the connection that is being made?
Because this is the exact same method some guys use when trying to have sex with their female partners.
This is pressure. It’s blaming. It’s not taking responsibility. It’s selfish. It’s a guy with no sexual value (obviously).
If you do not value the car, then you will not buy it.
It is not rocket science.
If a woman does not value a guy (personally), she will not want to be with him.
If a woman does not value a guy (sexually), she will not want to have sex with him.
Besides blaming her and not taken responsibility is done by Low Sexual Value Guys.
These guys are actually satisfied with pressuring her into sex using Gutless Guilt Tactics – when deep down inside their souls, they know she hasn’t been properly turned on.
She has been pressure-forced into having sex! (in other words, she ends up having sex but she didn’t physically want to!)
Instead of holding her hands down like a rapist, these Low Sexual Value Guys use their “minds” to hold her hands down…
But the expression on her face is the same!
This is a harsh reality.
Besides, Guilt Pressure-Tactics and Pill Suggestions actually make her feel horrible and unsexy! (and to me this is a “deadly horrible idea” for any guy trying to seduce his loving partner.)
[Seduce: The act of making her desire sex.]
Woman (talking to her friend): “Last night, Dave made me feel inadequate and miserable. After our conversation he made me feel completely unsexy. He was nice enough to let me know, that he has never experienced turning on women in the past, so it was my fault. After that, I became so turned on that we made love for hours!”
Actually: Conversations like that don’t take place.
The frightening truth is many guys take this approach, but it’s not necessarily their fault.
And no he is not a horrible beast who rapes women. Many guys are actually concerned with fixing things and they are willing to do whatever it takes. These guys are not intentionally trying to be selfish. In fact they do care about their female partners.
Let’s face it, not having the sex life you expect to have can be very frustrating, so of course trying to come up with a solution is the logical thing to do.
Because not every guy just rolls over without a fight.
Let’s face it:
Some guys just accept set-backs in life. (This is pathetic – in my opinion)
Some guys go on a quest for solutions, but do nothing. (This is even worse)
Some guys do the same ineffective things over and over. (This is pretty bad)
Some guys go on a quest for solutions, and nothing stops them from getting results. (This is great.)
With that said, I still do not believe that most guys are Scum Bags intentionally trying to make her sex life a living hell…Because if the sex was good in the beginning, how would you ever know that a CHANGE needs to be made?
If the sex was never that great at all, how would you ever know that you need to do THINGS a little differently – especially if you never had trouble turning on past lovers…
In fact, I can not tell you how many times I heard a guy say something like:
“She hasn’t been turned on and excited about sex in 3 years. Her sex drive has diminished and she doesn’t crave it anymore. There is something biologically (or hormonally) wrong with her.”
And then he’ll leave the relationship only for her to meet a new guy who kisses her gently a few times on the back until she explodes into a shaking orgasm.
And NO the guy didn’t use magic “voodoo” powers.
And YES this was the same woman.
And NO she didn’t empty a bottle of HerbalX500 into her mouth prior to the night of passion with Mr. New Guy…
Women like this are “seconds” away from a sexual explosion.
If you are a guy who wants more passion in your relationship, then increase your Sexual Value the right way.
Do not be the guy that monkies around with Pill Suggestion Tactics.
If she doesn’t want the beat up station wagon, no pill in the galaxy is going to “magically” install that desire in her.
Instructor CR James has helped thousands of guys power up their sexual value fast. He is the author of the new FREE report: “The 2 Unspoken Laws for Increasing A Woman’s Libido FAST” You can get a copy at: http://SSP-Magnetism.com/Laws.html