There are many questions in life where there is no clear answer. Even if you think you know the reasons or have the explanation why, sometimes what you have will not work according to the situation. One such time would be the age old question of whether your ex-boyfriend will take you back even after a break up.
This is very difficult and really depends on the situation between the both of you. Anyway, the first thing you need to ask yourself is if the relationship is worth rescuing in the first place. If you no longer have feelings for him, then there is no point finding if he will take you back or not.
After the breakup, you will go through a lot of emotional turmoil. It will certainly he a painful stage in your life. However, it is something that everyone needs to go through unless they are lucky enough never to have gone through a breakup. First things first – you need to take care of yourself first and learn how to control your emotions before attempting to get your ex-boyfriend back. There is no point coming up with devious plans to hook up with your ex-boyfriend if you are just going to turn into a mess at the end of it.
Instead, try and think as positively as you can and get your act together. A good motivating factor would be to tell yourself that there is no way you can get your ex-boyfriend back if you are just going to be sitting around moping for a long time. Thus, the best thing you can do in this situation would be to get back on your feet and start planning for the life ahead of you.
Also, do not get involved in any activities which would accidentally bring you to your ex-boyfriend i.e. hanging around the club where he loves frequenting, joining his gym or even making friends with his next door neighbour. Surely there must be something that you enjoy doing which will help you pass time in an enjoyable manner.
The crux to getting your ex-boyfriend to take you back would be to be as positive as possible and to move on with your life. Give him some time to get over the relationship before attempting to contact him. Whenever you meet him, try and study his body language to see if he is still interested in you.
If your ex-boyfriend has no problems whatsoever in keeping in touch with you, then you definitely still have a chance with him. After all, guys will not bother keeping in contact with women that they no longer care about. This is the first crucial test and if communication lines between the both of you are still open, congratulations because you still have a fighting chance.
At the end of the day, there are many ways in which you can get your ex-boyfriend to take you back. However, the best thing you can do is to take care of yourself in the best way possible and also maintain a personable but reasonable distance from your ex-boyfriend. That way, he will still remain in touch with you but will also be able to be impressed by the progress that you have made with your own life.